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Flying Solo Survey of More Than 5,000 People Catalogues Views on Divorce

Total-Survey
FLYING SOLO -- LIFE MANAGEMENT SURVEY  
  MALE FEMALE
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I. SEX OF RESPONDENT21%79%
   
II. MARITAL STATUS & INFORMATION  
   
1) Separated72%73%
2) Divorced14%18%
3) Seeking information14%9%
   
4) Length of marriage (yrs)  
1 - 711%14%
8 - 1223%12%
13 - 2033%39%
21 - 2519%22%
26 - 309%6%
more than 305%8%
   
5) Avg length of marriage (yrs)16.8 17.4
   
6) Mo's since separation  
6 or less14%54%
more than 686%46%
   
7) Years since divorce  
1 or less43%55%
more than 157%45%
   
8) # of Marriages  
one57%67%
two38%29%
three or more5%4%
   
III. RESPONDENT'S PERSONAL INFORMATION  
   
1) Age at separation (yrs)  
18 - 243%9%
25 - 3422%25%
35 - 4430%38%
45 - 5434%17%
55 - 647%9%
65 and over4%2%
   
2) Average age at separation (yrs)42.6 39.3
  
3) Education level  
high school only16%35%
some college19%32%
college degree47%31%
graduate degree18%2%
   
IV. INFORMATION ABOUT CHILDRENMALE FEMALE
   
1) Number  
016%21%
119%32%
247%31%
3 or more18%16%
   
2) Age at separation (yrs)  
1 - 928%24%
10 - 1847%42%
19 - 2232%46%
23 and over11%25%
(exceeds 100%)  
  
3) One or more in college54%57%
   
V. EMPLOYMENT INFORMATION  
   
1) Full-time87%43%
2) Part-time (<35 hours/wk)11%36%
3) Two jobs8%14%
4) Unemployed2%21%
avg years since worked0%12
need training/education6%55%
5) Began work after separation0%32%
of necessity0%87%
  
6) Gross wages (avg.)  
full time$47,250 $27,600
part-time$16,400 $6,300
   
VI. ECONOMIC DECISION MAKING  
   
1) Before separation, respondent was  
active 86%37%
somewhat active 14%30%
inactive0%33%
   
2) During marriage, who decided  
insurance87%24%
mortgages89%15%
loans81%9%
investments93%21%
retirement10%17%
children's education65%72%
credit97%37%
   
   
VII. AREAS OF CONCERN MALE FEMALE
   
1) Since separation   
understanding divorce57%79%
understanding the system65%87%
how to deal with lawyers81%96%
remarriage questions43%27%
employment/benefits29%64%
financial management43%76%
life insurance43%67%
health problems22%77%
health coverage34%85%
disability coverage21%73%
auto insurance15%55%
h'owners insurance12%57%
housing14%75%
moving19%68%
education of children71%73%
education/training self6%87%
credit9%81%
retirement45%79%
   
VIII. FAMILY ECONOMIC INFORMATION  
   
1) Family worth (in dollars)  
50,000 - 99,99917%21%
100,000 - 200,00037%23%
201,000 - 300,00033%39%
301,000 - 400,00011%13%
more than 401,0002%4%
   
2) Average family worth ($'s)$201,500 $214,500
   
3) Knew worth before divorce84%21%
   
4) Family assets include  
home87%98%
pension77%69%
stock56%52%
savings87%89%
   
IX. WHAT WOULD MAKE IT EASIER?  
   
1) Improve relationship with lawyer73%88%
return calls55%77%
better service31%42%
better billing58%64%
better understanding of system81%97%
more information83%98%
   
  MALE FEMALE
2) Learn about effects of divorce  
before the fact79%88%
topics of interest  
the system81%97%
how lawyers work86%90%
dealing with counselors43%67%
economics of divorce83%98%
insurance71%95%
safe investments79%97%
dealing with salesmen43%93%
taxes79%92%
credit32%78%
custody/visitation55%77%
making a budget67%89%
keeping a budget56%94%
   
3) Find an affordable resource56%79%
Lawyer9%7%
Support group5%16%
Books11%17%
Workshop with materials55%69%
Videos with manuals61%85%
Easy access economic services41%72%
   
Sources: Questionnaires completed by 5,521 Flying Solo readers, focus  
groups, telephone interviews, and work shop attendees.  
   
FLYING SOLO -- LIFE MANAGEMENT SURVEY  
  MALE FEMALE
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I. SEX OF RESPONDENT21%79%

Last Updated on 7/26/97
By Jan L. Warner
Email: janwarner@flyingsolo.com



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